Hey Reader, I wrote a new blog post that I'd love to share with you. Men, Menopause, and the Midlife Awakening You Didn’t See Coming Published on November 13, 2025 When your wife enters perimenopause, you enter transition too. Menopause isn’t the end of connection—it’s your invitation to awaken, grow, and rediscover purpose. The post Men, Menopause, and the Midlife Awakening You Didn’t See Coming appeared first on Sven Masterson - Mentor for Men. Read more... Take Care,Sven MastersonP.S....
20 days ago • 1 min read
Hey Reader, I wrote a new blog post that I'd love to share with you. Why Does It Feel Like I’m the Only One Who Wants to Spend Time Together? Published on October 23, 2025 Feeling like you’re the only one who still wants to spend time together? You’re not alone. This piece explores why “partner time” often feels empty, how self-abandonment kills polarity, and what it takes to rebuild connection from presence, not pressure. The post Why Does It Feel Like I’m the Only One Who Wants to Spend...
about 1 month ago • 1 min read
Hey Reader, Take a look at this image. It’s simple, but it carries a truth that’s been echoing through my own life and in the lives of the men I walk with every day. Most of us are reactive.We see conflict, pressure, or disappointment… and we show up the same way we always have.We recycle old patterns, old words, old defensiveness.We think we’re responding to the moment, but really, we’re just replaying the past. And if we’re honest, it isn’t just us.Our marriages, our families, even our...
3 months ago • 1 min read
Hey Reader, Have you ever heard that it takes around 10,000 hours to master something?I bet you have. Most men get that, at least once they’ve spent time around someone who has put that kind of time into their craft. If we want to excel in our careers, we often need to work hard for decades. If we want a strong body, we train, sweat, recover, and repeat. If we want to get good at golf, hunting, or shooting, we put in the reps, the rounds, the casts, and the time at the range or river. We make...
3 months ago • 3 min read
Hey Reader, I’ve been working on this for a while now, but it’s finally ready:The audiobook bundle for The Unchained Husband. The Unchained Husband Bundle: Audiobook + E-Book + Reader's Guide The Unchained Husband is a bold, no-fluff guide for men stuck in emotional gridlock. If you're tired of walking on... Read more Get it now! This has been months in the making —reading, recording, editing, and even reliving some of the hardest and most meaningful parts of my own journey. Many of you asked...
4 months ago • 1 min read
Hey Reader, A lot of men who read this are exhausted. Some are coasting, others are numb. Many are collecting insights and hoping one finally makes a dent. Experience tells me that a good bit of them feel like they’re doing everything right, but still stuck with a life that doesn’t feel like their own. If that’s where you are, I get it. I spent a long time there too, living in flat-out hopelessness. I couldn’t imagine things changing, and I had more than a little anxiety that I might die...
4 months ago • 4 min read
Hey Reader, I wrote a new blog post that I'd love to share with you. “I’m Unhappy With the Sex in My Marriage” — How to Stop Waiting, Take Back Your Power, and Become the Man She Can’t Ignore Published on July 29, 2025 If you’ve ever found yourself Googling “sexless marriage help” or “why am I unhappy with my wife” at 2 a.m., you’re not alone. Brother, that sentence you keep repeating — “I’m unhappy with the sex in my marriage” — isn’t one problem, it’s three: happiness, sex, and marriage......
4 months ago • 1 min read
Hey Reader, I actually love meeting new people.I’m curious. I listen well. I ask good questions.And most of the time, I can hold my own in just about any conversation. But there's one moment at every gathering that often makes me pause. It’s when someone leans in and casually asks,“So… what do you do?” Now, I can answer that question.And I do answer it.But often, I can’t help but wonder what it’s like for the person asking, someone who is probably expecting a clean, polite reply like:...
5 months ago • 5 min read
Hey Reader, If you’ve been doing the work—calming your reactivity, leading yourself, tending the emotional fire in your home—but still find your wife cold, guarded, or withdrawn… You’re not alone. This might be one of the most discouraging places a man can land. It’s where you start to wonder: “What’s the point?”“Do I have to be perfect to be loved?”“Will anything ever change?” I just wrote something for men like you.Not to give you a 5-step formula.Not to tell you to try harder.But to help...
8 months ago • 1 min read