New Blog Post: Anakin Skywalker Syndrome: How Unhealed Wounds Turn Good Men Into Villains

Published 17 days ago • 2 min read

Hey Reader,

Most men don’t realize they’re already on the Villain’s path.

Not because they’re bad men.
Not because they’re broken.
But because they’ve been hurt.

It always starts the same way.

A betrayal. A disappointment. A moment where you felt small, powerless, and unseen.

At first, you just sit with the pain.
Then, you start telling yourself a story.
And that story convinces you that your pain is someone else’s fault.

Maybe your wife stopped looking at you the way she used to.
Maybe she pulled away emotionally—or physically.
Maybe life blindsided you with something you never saw coming.

At first, you’re just angry. Resentful. Justified.

Then, the story in your mind changes.

You start believing she’s the enemy.
You start thinking of her as the reason you feel this way.
And before you realize it, you’ve stopped seeing clearly.

You harden.
You shut down.
And you start making decisions that feel right in the moment…

… but are actually burning everything down.

🔥 This is how villains are made.

Most men don’t wake up one day and decide to sabotage their own life.
But they do it anyway.

Not because they’re bad.
Not because they’re weak.
But because they never learned how to process pain.

And if you don’t wake up soon, it’ll happen to you, too.

Because here’s the truth:

Passivity is a choice.
And every victim who refuses to self-rescue eventually becomes the villain.

But there’s another path.

A way to turn it all around—before it’s too late.

That’s exactly what I talk about in my latest article:

👇 Read it now:
Anakin Skywalker Syndrome: How Unhealed Wounds Turn Good Men Into Villains

Inside, you’ll learn:

Why pain turns into resentment—and how it warps your reality.
How men sabotage their own relationships without realizing it.
What it actually takes to rebuild yourself and create the life you want.

But be warned: this article isn’t comfortable reading.

Because once you see the path you’re on, you won’t be able to unsee it.

And then?

You’ll have to decide.

Will you stay on the Villain’s path?

Or will you step into the work, reclaim yourself, and take the Victor’s path?

If you don’t choose, your pain will choose for you.

👇 Read the full article now.

Anakin Skywalker Syndrome: How Unhealed Wounds Turn Good Men Into Villains

Published on March 17, 2025

Every man faces a moment of reckoning—a crossroads between becoming the villain or the victor. Most don’t realize that doing nothing is still a choice—and it leads straight to destruction. This article dives into Anakin Skywalker Syndrome, showing how wounded men justify their descent into bitterness, how they sabotage their own lives, and why the journey from Mustafar (rage and destruction) to Ahch-To (self-mastery) to Naboo (thriving and connection) is the only way out. If you don’t choose your path, Mustafar chooses for you.

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